The Manwhore. You know who he is. You’ve heard the epic tale of his foursomes in Vegas, the stories of that guy who got his tires slashed and brand new BMW keyed. You’ve seen the movies that he star’s in, and the lifestyle that his followers fight to obtain. He is well known. He is envied. He is hated. He is an animal in his own right. Completely free from the bonds of society, he does what he wants when he wants. But most of all, he is known for one thing, the ability to seduce women. It’s a fucking lifestyle.
Unfortunately, society seems to be confused about if this lifestyle is a good thing or a bad thing. The negative social stigmas attached to this label can be accurate at times, but you know how social stigmas go. They exist for a reason, but are they always right? Are blondes always dumb? You get what I mean. The Manwhore has the negative social stigma simply deemed, Player. What does a player do? He play’s girls, the name speaks for itself. He lies, cheats, and manipulates women. What a lot of people fail to realize, is that there is a line between the two titles. A line easily blurred, but a line regardless. So what the hell is the difference you ask?
A way of living that the Player lacks, called “Not Giving A Fuck”.
The Player will lie about his money, his sweet vacation house in Italy, his rental lambo, all to get into the girls pants. Why? Because he gives a fuck.
The Player will proclaim his love for the girl with one goal in mind. Because he gives a fuck.
The Player will fool the girl into thinking that he’s committed to her and her alone, only to fuck her best friend the day after. Because he gives a fuck.
You see where I’m going with this? I’m 20 years old. I have had sex with over 85 women. I lost my virginity at 18. It’s disgusting I know. I used to wear my number as a badge of honor, fortunately now a days I could care less. With my interesting history regarding women, I can proudly say that I have never lied to a girl with the goal of getting into her pants. I have never led a girl on to believe we are in a long-term monogamous relationship, and then cheat on her. I’m generally a nice and caring dude that just so happens to love the thrill of sleeping with a new girl. The funny part is, you’d be surprised just how much women love the idea of random hookups. GASP! All and all, I could care less if she wants to have sex with me or not. I am not attached to the outcome, so when it does happen to go down its out of pure fun and good emotions. It’s a win/win situation.
Now that we have that important concept out of the way, the Manwhore label has its positives and its negatives. As all labels do. I’ll start off with the positives.
1. He has Options
The majority of guys out there sadly do not. If he looses interest in one girl, all it takes to move on to the other is a phone call. He can literally sleep with a different girl every night of the week. Is this healthy? Probably not. But, the possibility still stands.
2. Emotional Detachment
He is an emotional rock. Random hookups and the emotions that tie with the topic are constantly being lived. Eventually, he gets jaded and shit that used to affect him, ceases to stop. His heart is not easily broken, and officially ending a fling with a girl comes with ease.
3. Ridiculous Stories and Adventures
This is a given. The Manwhore has the luxury of looking back at his life on his deathbed and thinking to himself, “holy fuck what crazy life I lived”. The opportunity to experience sexual fantasies that the average Joe only watches on the internet.
4. Social Proof
If you have the reputation as a Manwhore, word will get around. You will peak the curiosity of women within your social circle and within your friend’s social circles. When a man is known to have sex with a lot of women, specially attractive women, other women see this as “well he must be doing something right” and openly make themselves available.
Without positives, negatives wouldn’t exist. Breaking the hearts of girls, intentionally or unintentionally, and dealing with the emotional roller costar that seems to happen when sex is involved most definitely brings its negatives. Here they are.
This one is obvious. It comes with the territory.
2. STD’s and Pregnancy’s
Easily avoided, but still a huge negative. If you are a Manwhore, you will have an STD at least once in your life. It happens. Oh and stock up on those Plan B pills. Don’t be a retard; the “pull out” method will eventually get you into a whole pile of shit.
3. Player Social Stigma
I covered this earlier. A lot of people confuse players with Manwhores, and people who don’t know the difference will judge you accordingly.
4. Difficulty Settling Down
It’s hard to settle down when you get caught up in the thrill of random sex. You notice how your friends are so deeply in love with their girlfriends, yet you loose interest in a girl only after a week of seeing her. I deal with this problem occasionally. Some call it having standards, but it can suck at times.
Honestly, I’m happy as fuck with my life and what opportunities it has given me. I have a long list of crazy memories and experiences that have made me into the person I am today. I have nothing to complain about. The Manwhore lifestyle is worth living, hands down. Those seeking some color in their life should pursue it. If you have no idea where to start, check out How to Flirt with a girl at collegeflirt.