29 Dec 2012

How To Be A Player In 2013 – You New Year’s Resolution Plan

Since the New Year is just around the corner I figured it would only be natural to make some sort of getting laid New Year’s resolution plan. If this year was particularly bad, or if you want to ramp up your game and score more chicks next year, this plan should put you on your feet. It won’t turn you into a player by the end of January but it will quickly improve your success rate.

If you want this to work, stick to it and do everything on the list.

1. Hit The Gym

If you’ve got a gym nearby, go there and start working out (strength routines are good for quick results). If you can’t go to a gym because of your time/distance/money/whatever, start a home workout routine. My personal favorite, which I’ve actually done a few times now, is “Insanity Workout” from Shaun T. It’s incredibly intensive but after one month the results will be very visible.

Working out not only improves your appearance but it directly improves your game. This happens because firstly, as you are working out, you raise your testosterone levels which will make you feel more like a man and secondly, working out releases endorphins in your brain which will make your feel better about yourself thus having a direct increase in confidence.

2. Learn Some Game

Whichever way you view it, game works. The more game you know, the better you are at scoring women. A good resource I’m obviously going to recommend is my website (ThePlayerGuide.Com) and book but there are also many others out there. A few examples are Mystery, Joshua Pellicier, Real Social Dynamics and let’s not forget David DeAngelo. These are all great resources for learning game and they will teach your pretty much everything you need to know about scoring women. Make sure you avoid “The Game” book, as that’s more of a story rather than actual teaching material.

3. Become Interesting

As I’ve previously discussed on countless occasions, being an interesting person is absolutely paramount when it comes to succeeding with women. In order to become interesting in the eyes of a woman you must have a lot of interesting stuff to talk about. This can be easily achieved by reading actual books. This develops your vocabulary tremendously (making you seem more intelligent) but it also help you come up with a ton of interesting stuff to talk about.

If you’re not really into reading and find it a terrible pain, try watching some educational material such as documentaries about interesting stuff as well as changing your Jersey Shore regime to something more worthwhile. A show about traveling will at the very least allow you to talk about other cultures, locations, something that many women find interesting.

4. Approach 100 Women

The only real way of actually learning something is to go out there and do it. I always find it easier to do anything in life if I have an actual goal. So, make it your goal to approach 100 women. I’d recommend making the approaches at night (bar/club) as you might have more confidence in this particular setting however, if you prefer daytime approaches, that’s just as fine, just pick one and stick to it. Aim for 20 approaches per week, that’s around 7 per night if you go out 3 times a week (1 weekday, Friday and Saturday).

It’s important to actually do the 100. Sure you might get laid at the 5th one but I’m sure there’s also going to be dudes that approach 99 and get nothing. Whichever way it is, keep doing it all the way until you hit 100.

5. Give HANDlexandra A Break

Being horny is key to your success. If you’re not horny enough, you’re not really motivated to make those 100 approaches. The best thing to do is to sit down, have a chat with HANDlexandra (your hand) and decide at 1 or a maximum of 2 pleasurable moments a week. Ideally it should only happen once a week, on a day that is not immediately followed by a going out day. Basically if you go out Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays, the best day would be either Sunday or Monday. Stay true to this habbit and you’ll be much more motivated to actually go out there and get your hands on a real woman.

6. Take “Game” Seriously

Game is not something you’ll learn over night and you may even find it overwhelming at the beginning. It’s always good to take notes (as you do/did in school) to keep everything easily accessible. As you’re reading through your game material, take notes on stuff that you feel is worth remembering. Also, as you’re doing your 100 approaches, take notes on the numbers you did and how it went down.

For example, at approach 34 you told the girl that she has a fat ass, but it’s ok because you like fat asses. Despite that, she immediately slapped you and walked away. As a result, when you get back home, you write down that telling girls they have a fat ass is not a good thing to say. BAM, lesson learned.

This notebook will eventually be a roadmap to success. After a while you’ll clearly have a pattern for what works and what doesn’t and you’ll soon score chicks at no more than 3 approaches per night.

7. Take Time Off

Once you’ve completed all 100 approaches it’s time to take a break and reflect on everything that happened. Instead of immediately jumping to 100 more, sit down and read through that notebook you’ve written. Find out what exactly worked best and what didn’t. If you pay close attention to what worked and what you need to avoid you’re next 100 will be at least 50% more successful. This means that by the time you’ve done 400, you’re probably going to score a chick per week.

This is also a good time to look back to all that game material as now you’ve got experience behind it so when the material describes a particular scenario, you can actually relate to it and see your mistakes and success much better.

8. Repeat All Points Except 2, Until You’ve Reached The Level You Want

#2 is not worth repeating because your OWN experiences are responsible for your game’s success. Reading more material about how others are doing it can be useless when your own experiences show otherwise. Plus, that time can be more efficiently spent by approaching more women.

Keep going to the same venues where you had the most success, keep doing what worked and stop doing what didn’t. Don’t try day game if you started with nightgame, you’ll basically have to start from scratch. Just keep getting more and more experience and your game will gradually improve.

If you’re really new to the game you might not even get laid in the first 100 but once you’ve sat down and analyzed what happened, the next 100 will surely guarantee some lays. Getting laid really is a numbers game, if you don’t approach enough women you might never get to approach the chick that was going to respond to your game. Keep going and don’t give up, the more you do it the more you’ll know how to shape your game and succeed with more women.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.