It’s hard to embrace change, especially when you’re a man. But when it comes to your personality there are a number of things that are worth looking into. Women always notice when a man is working on himself and they love it, they feel attracted to it. A man willing to change is a man worth having around…
Now, if you’re looking to improve your personality and become desired by women take the following 7 traits into consideration.
Women don’t find indifference attractive – in fact, the common misconception that a guy with a “whatever” attitude is attractive, is wrong. It just shows a woman that you lack personality. If you really want to impress her, try giving direct responses whilst looking into her eyes. Give her your full undivided attention and she will respect you for that.
You should never cheat on the woman that you have. Being faithful can only work in your favor. Let’s put it this way, you want to sleep with a number of women. If you move to the other person after you broke up with the previous, everyone is happy and you create a respectable reputation (at least as being “good in bed”).
Now if you sleep with more women at the same time and you get caught, you’ve lost your reputation and with it, your chance to sleep with everyone else in that circle. Women will look at you with a bitter taste and will class you as disrespectful.
If you ask any women about the qualities they want to see in a man, one of them will always be “I want a man that can make me laugh”. Women are emotional beings so they associate laughter with a good feeling. As a result, if you can make them laugh, you’re basically making them feel good around you.
Next time you go out, try giving humor a shot. It’s very great for openers but, don’t just tell her a random joke. Try to create humor by looking at the situations around you. If you create humor spontaneously, she’ll love your for it.
Being a gentleman
Gallantry and charm never go out of style and in the era of the “whatever” guys, being a gentleman will really set you apart. If you actually ask women about it you will quickly learn that they have an appreciation for men that carry old fashioned beliefs. They want a man that treats a lady like a lady.
Remember, the subtle things are the ones that make you stand out.
It’s a common misconception that men need to be rich and powerful to attract women. Sure, those work sometimes but, in reality women need to see a man that is focused and goal oriented. If you can prove to her that you don’t want to be stuck in that assistant manager position, it is as good as actually having the money and higher status.
Women fall for the investment. If you can prove to them that you can be a valuable investment, you will succeed.
Again this does not refer to being physically strong but more to your character in comparison to hers. If you can show true strength and firmness of character you will create an image of a strong man in her eyes. This is about being confident and not being afraid to show it.
Compassion is not about sympathizing sick animals on TV when she is in the room, it’s about adopting one. Compassion is not about talking to her when she is sick, it’s about going there to offer her some real comfort. Maybe these examples are not suitable but if you think about it you can find countless other ways to be compassionate using the same principles found in them.
This article was written by Alex Matlock, our expert in dating and women psychology. This is the sort of stuff he discusses on his blog and in the free eBook he’s giving out. For more tips to increase your success with women visit The Player Guide - a place where the “dating” mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct (and fruitful) methods of meeting and seducing women.