11 Aug 2015

3 Light BDSM Moves to Try In The Bedroom

Fifty Shades of Grey has been out for a long while now, but it still is very relevant in the world of sex, merely because of how much it popularized the idea of trying out the whole dominant/submissive thing in the bedroom. Plus the BDSM side of things as well, of course.

Yes, we’re aware it really isn’t some people’s sort of thing, but hear us out. BDSM gets a lot of bad rep for the assumed harsh whippings, chains, or whatever else you’ve heard that seems really out of the norm. However, do consider just trying out some lighter forms of BDSM. You and your partner might actually end up enjoying it. If you two really hated it, at least you can say that you’ve been there and have done that. Experience after all, right?

BDSM Moves

 

First things first though. Determine who’ll be the dominant and who the submissive partner will be. Once that’s all set, then you’re good to go.

3. Ties and blinds

Handcuffs or blankets or ropes for restraint. Then the blinds to cover the submissive’s eyes. And then the teasing commences. Of the erogenous zones, of course. Feathers or even just plain oral here. Explore their nether regions while they squirm from ecstasy and the unknown.

2. Light spankin’

Spank ’em. Try it. Just don’t smack ’em like their getting beaten. Keep it playful. Or even just light taps by some chosen object (a wooden or metal spoon, among many things). Fun is the main game here.

1. Play around with temperature

Ice cubes or warm wax, take your pick. Alternate between the two, running them along the body of your partner and it will bring about a lot of new, incredible sensations for them.

Well, there you have it. Just small simple things you could try to bring light BDSM into your boudoir. It’s an adventure that you might have fun with if you do take the plunge, albeit a shallow one.